There was one thing notably missing from the Memorial Day service at Kinder Cemetery in Cuba on Monday—a crowd!
There were a few members of the public in attendance, but the group of veterans who took part in the program almost outnumbered them. And the lack of public participation can’t be attributed to COVID-19. We’ve had way bigger crowds as numerous public events in the area during the pandemic. So what happened?
Admittably, the crowd for Memorial Day (and Veterans Day) ceremonies are normally not very big, but this year’s was disturbingly low. Part of the problem was undoubtedly a lack of promotion for the event. We tried to get information about the Cuba ceremony in last week’s Free Press, but couldn’t get it in time. Despite that, information about the annual event was out there on social media later in the week.
Much of the problem simply has to be a lack of interest by the public, which is a shame. We must all make a better effort to honor our fallen service members. To that end, let’s not forget what Memorial Day is about with this message that still rings true 13 years after it was first released.
Meaning of Memorial Day
Released by the VFW in 2008
It's a sacred day to all war veterans: None need to be reminded of the reason that Memorial Day must be commemorated. But what about the general public, and more important, future generations? Do most non-veterans really recognize the importance of the day honoring their fellow Americans killed in war?
Judging from what Memorial Day has become—simply another day off from work—the answer is a resounding no. Perhaps a reminder is due, then. And it is the duty of each and every veteran to relay the message.
Sacrifice is meaningless without remembrance. America’s collective consciousness demands that all citizens recall and be aware of the deaths of their fellow countrymen during wartime.
Far too often, the nation as a whole takes for granted the freedoms all Americans enjoy. Those freedoms were paid for with the lives of others few of us actually knew. That’s why they are all collectively remembered on one special day.
This should be regarded as a civic obligation. For this is a national debt that can only be truly repaid by individual Americans. By honoring the nation’s war dead, we preserve their memory and thus their service and sacrifice in the memories of future generations.
They came from all walks of life and regions of the country. But they all had one thing in common—love of and loyalty to country. This bond cemented ties between them in times of trials, allowing a diverse lot of Americans to achieve monumental ends.
We remember the loss of loved ones, a sense of loss that takes group form. In essence, America is commemorating those who made the greatest sacrifice possible—giving one’s own life on behalf of others.
Means of paying tribute vary. Pausing for a few moments of personal silence is available to everyone.
Attending commemorative ceremonies is the most visible way of demonstrating remembrance: Placing flags at gravesites, marching in parades, sponsoring patriotic programs, dedicating memorials and wearing Buddy Poppies are examples.
Whether done individually or collectively, it is the thought that counts. Personal as well as public acts of remembering are the ideal. Public displays of patriotism are essential if the notion of remembering war dead is to be instilled in youth.
As America’s older war veterans fast disappear from society’s landscape, there are fewer and fewer standard-bearers left to carry the torch of remembrance. Such traditions will live on only if there is a vibrant movement to which that torch can be passed.
Now, more than in recent years, the enduring relevance of Memorial Day should be clearly evident. With two wars under way, the public has no excuse not to remember.
This much is owed to the more than 4,500 Americans who have died thus far in Afghanistan and Iraq.
Mark your calendar now, there will be a Memorial Day service in your community in 2022. In Cuba, it will be at 10 a.m. at Kinder Cemetery on May 30.